Tuesday, February 3, 2015

A relationship is all about chances



Relationships are not perfect. If they were, trust me, your life would be like a wormhole; sucking everything that makes you who you are. Have you ever been in a perfect relationship? If you have, YOU ARE SO LUCKY!

That is not to say they are a total disaster either. Relationships make life interesting. Having someone you know you love and who loves you back is a good thing; it’s the BEST thing. There are good days and low days. Good days erase every low feeling you have had in the low days.

Whatever the case, I have found getting some advice helps you cope with each and every day. Some people get into relationships because of love, others go into relationships for the sex, others get into relationships because they are friends, others don’t want to be alone, others want financial support, and others want companionship. There are innumerable reasons why people get into relationships.

I don’t think you are here because you want a reason to get into one. I think you are here because there are some things you want to understand. Things you are going through. Don’t worry, you are not alone. Once in a while, we all need some reassurance. We need to hear something that makes sense when things don’t make sense.

This blog will cover all aspects of relationships that anyone in a relationship needs to know. The first thing I would like to request you is to be OPEN MINDED about a lot of things.

A lot of times we want to read or find something that will affirm to us that we were right about something concerning your current relationship. I have found that it’s not about being right or wrong; it’s about realizing what matters and what will make things work. You just have to be prudent.

In relationships, there’s no one who knows everything. You have to be willing to see the other side. I know it’s hard, right? You can do it! You have to be positive about at all times if your relationship is to work.

However, there are situations that need you to make decisions. There are times you have to contend with the fact that you have to leave. There are times you need to realize it’s just a minor setback. We will cover a lot of aspects; with the intention to help you have a clear head before you do I know you are thinking about.

A lot of times if you are in a tight spot, you are thinking of the worst. When you clear things out, you realize you were overreacting. So, why is it so hard to get it right the first time? Why? Why? I know….

I think we all need to first find a sober head and see things from another person’s perspective. I want to help you see you are always, almost always, 99.999999% never alone. You have to know that taking things too serious only makes it worse. However, I insist, that it is no reason to let people take advantage of you, or take advantage of other people. We will cover different things such as:

  • Qualities of a good relationship

  • Situations that can end a relationship

  • When to call it quits

  • When to take it to the next level

  • When your relationship is in danger

  • Intimacy

  • Stages of a relationship
  • When he or she is cheating

  • The case of the ex

  • Secrets

  • Seeing a relationship in the right perspective and so much more

Basically, we will talk about everything. My aim is give you hope and to help you stay objective.

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